By 9 A.M.

It's happened! You know that stage when if it is not glued down or locked up your child will find a way to get to it and destroy it in 3 seconds flat. Well by 9 A.M. this morning these were the 3 messes I have already discovered. Don't let his innocent little face fool you.....he knows just when to strike.

So dear husband, when you come home at night and the house is a mess and I have not showered in days and dinner is not made and I am a bit on edge...now you know why. And the only way I am able to blog about this right now with the peace of mind that nothing else is being destroyed is because I just laid my little one down for a nap. I have exactly one hour now to run around as fast as humanly possible to get as much cleaned up and taken care of as I can. Wish me luck!

Morgan had her dance recital this past weekend. It was so fun to see her up on stage loving every second of it. I had a great time doing her hair and make-up and making her look like a beautiful ballerina for the day.

Her preschool teacher even came to the performance to see her. I think that was her favorite part!Here is a picture with her and one of her best friends. They are so cute together!

Below is a video of one of the dances she was in. The video is actually of her dress rehearsal because the one of her recital was too dark...but it is still pretty cute to watch. Enjoy!

20 memories in 10 days

We have just arrived home from our trip out to Utah and I thought I would share some of the

fun we had.

1. Sometimes the best part of the trip for the kids is the stay in the hotel. They had a blast swimming and jumping on the beds. I was not in the room when the jumping occurred...I can only wonder what else goes on when I am not around.

2. We got to ride on the airplane with our good friends. The girls sat with the girls and the boys sat with the boys. When we were walking down the isle with our 7 kids you should have seen the look of amazement/terror on peoples faces. I am sure they were just happy when they realised we were not sitting in their row. The kids were actually REALLY good!






3. Our next memory is hanging out with our best friends The Pittman's. Our kids have so much fun together and we just LOVE spending time with them. We had bad movie night which is a tradition for us, we had lots of laughs...and lots of great night talks. What would we do without them????

4. We went bowling...my kids always love it and I actually bowled a really good game!

5. I got to go to General Conference with Abby, my sister, and my nephew. It was awesome to be in the actual conference center and feel the hush of the crowd when the prophet walked in. Abby took notes through the entire thing and was so cute. It was a great experience that I think she will remember for a long time.

6. We got to spend a good amount of time up at my parents cabin. It was the perfect amount of down time to just hang out and play games. My sister and her family were there and our kids always have a blast together. My favorite part was when Abby and her cousin Grace saw each other for the first time. It was like a scene out of a movie..they ran down the hall towards each other and started spinning around hugging each other. It was a true moment of pure joy and so fun to watch and see their excitement!

7. We were there for my brothers birthday and we went bowling with all the kids. It was great that we could all be together with him on his special day.

8. We spent an amazing day at the zoo. The weather was beautiful that day and it felt great to be outside. The kids had a blast...the train as usual was their favorite!

9. We went out to eat at Tuscany KID FREE! The food was amazing the company was even better. It was great to spend one night as adults and remember the good old days!

10. We took the kids to eat at the Mayan. Do you notice anyone missing in this picture? Morgan!!! She had been left outside and we had been at our table taking pictures and ordering food before some front desk lady brought her up and asked us if she was ours!!!! Great parenting moment if I do say so myself. You know you have too many kids when you don't even notice when one is missing. OOPS!

11. We went on a hike to the temple quarry trail where they got all the stone for the Utah temple. It was a perfect hike for the kids and they each found a little stone made out of rock that looks just like the temple to bring home with them.

12. We took the kids up to BYU to show them our old stomping grounds. We went and got ice cream at the creamery and then walked them around campus. It is always weird to be back in Provo..so many good and crazy memories!

13. We had a special lunch at Thanksgiving Point for my grandma and grandpa. It was a great way to see family and have a special lunch together. My grandma and grandpa looked great...I wish I could be around to spend more time with them.

14. We took the kids to the Dino museum. They had a great time exploring.

15. My grandma Jane had her annual easter egg hunt and we were able to go and see lots of family and the kids had a great time on their hunt. I love spending time with family!

The last 5 memories I don't have pictures of but they were fun all the same.

16. Spa day with my bff at my favorite place in the entire world. I seriously would be broke if I lived in Utah. The relaxing time was fantastic.

17. Charlie and his brother and two good friends spent a day skiing. Actually Charlie spent most of the day falling and the boys spent most of the day laughing. They purposely would let Charlie go ahead of them so that they could watch the show. No broken bones just lots of bruises and a shattered credit card. Thanks Rich for finding my husbands cell phone....I have no idea how you did it!

18. The kids got to go swimming in Uncle Chris' outdoor hot springs pool. They had a blast!

19. My sister invited the kids for a sleepover at her house. It was a special night for them and they are still talking about it. Thanks Jeni!

20. Last but not least, we spent an afternoon with Charlie's family and had a great time. The kids had an easter egg hunt, they rode in the back of Uncle Chris' truck and we ate great food and enjoyed the company of fun family.

It was a great trip...now we are just in recovery mode. I feel like I always need a vacation from my vacation. It feels good to be home but our time with our friends and family will truly be missed. COME SEE US SOON!!!!!!!!

Fun Project

The baby's room has been in need of some major tlc for quite some time. I have had my eye on some canvas prints that match his bedding but I have only seen them for $50-$70 and I was not willing to pay that much so I started to brainstorm a way that I could make my own.

I started and finished this project in one day and the entire thing cost just under $20. I was so happy with how they turned out and I think it makes it more fun knowing that I made them myself and saved some money while doing it.

Here is the finished project and below that are the actual pictures of the animals on his bedding. I think I made a pretty good match!

This is how I did it. I took a digital picture of each animal. I printed each one to the size I needed just in black and white on regular computer paper. I purchased some tracing paper and then traced the images onto the canvas. Then it was just a matter of painting them and that was it!

I think this is a great option for making art for any child's room. You could take an image off their bedding or really any image from a book, a card...the sky is the limit. Anyway, I thought I would just pass the idea along.

Next project is to paint the actual room and then finish off with a few more little items and I think he will finally have a cute nursery! Sometimes you just need a little project like this to get you jump started.

12 hours = 2 cups

A few days ago some of our friends called us and asked us if we wanted to take some of their sap from their maple trees to make our own maple syrup. I responded with an enthusiastic , "Yes, we would love some."

My worries began when I showed up at their doorstep and my friend said, "Thank you for taking away my headache." I left with two buckets full of sap and the instructions to just boil it until you can't blow the bubbles down anymore.

Sounds easy enough right????

These are my lovely buckets full of sap.

This is what the sap looks like before the process began. Clear as water.

Here is my pot on the stove. Notice the time on the clock 1:36.
12 HOURS LATER THIS IS THE RESULT!!!!

This is not a joke. I started with about 8 gallons of sap and the end result was a little less than 2 cups of syrup. I ran my stove on high for 12 straight hours. I started to think this was just a mean joke when I had reached 11 hours and 59 minutes and I was still able to blow the bubbles down, but finally it happened!

I am not quite sure I will ever want to use this delicious syrup I labored over so diligently but I have had a little taste and it is very good. One thing is for sure...the kids will not be allowed to use this on their pancakes.

Now I know why my friend lovingly referred to this as her "headache". If she calls again and wants to share I may think twice. I must say however it was a new lesson learned and kind of fun to try once but I don't think I will be opening my homemade maple syrup shop any time soon!

No Spending Month Review

Every year we set goals and then post them where we can see them each day. This year I made a goal that I wanted to have a no spending for one entire month goal. Charlie was thrilled when he heard about this goal.

We picked February to be our month. By no spending I mean things such as no movie rentals, no clothing purchases, no babysitters, no eating out....the only exception was that I could buy groceries and gas.

The month is over and I have to say I am glad I did it. I am not much of a spender in the first place so I did not think it would be too difficult to accomplish this goal but I did learn a few lessons.

First: I learned that you really can just make do with what you have. Ethan has two pairs of jeans and both of them got holes in the knees at the start of the month. I could not just run out and buy new ones so he went to school with holes. I also pulled out some pants that are still too big for him but we made them work. Sure he was probably not the most fashionable kid in school, but my kids never are and guess what....that's ok!

Second: I learned that if you are not so busy filling your life up with "stuff" Heavenly Father will bless you with opportunities to help others. This was a lesson I was not quite expecting from this little experiment but I was amazed. This month I was almost bombarded with opportunities to serve other people. I have had time to ponder this a bit and I think the reason was two-fold. One, I think that Heavenly Father knew we would have a little extra money this month and presented us with opportunities to share it with others. The second part of this is that I think I was able to be more focused on others this month and not so much on just our little family which made it easier for me to respond to promptings from the spirit. I found myself each morning during my prayers asking to be an answer to another persons prayers...I'm not sure if I was an answer to anyone but I can say I felt closer to the spirit and I did my best to help each person I saw that was in need.

Third: I learned that we can have just as much fun at home being a family as we do going out and doing things. I pretty much already knew this but it was just magnified this week. We spent more time just being together, baking, reading, playing games and we had a blast!

The other day we got our first credit card bill that had the beginning of February on it. It was the first time I found myself being excited to open a credit card bill. Charlie actually came and gave me a kiss when he saw it! Ladies, how often do you get a kiss from your husband over a credit card bill????

Overall I quite enjoyed this little experiment and think I will make it a yearly goal. It really helped put needs and wants into perspective. That being said I am pretty sure I will end up at a drive-thru window at some point this week, not having to cook for one night sounds GLORIOUS!

Double Take

Each week I hear many times how much the baby looks just like his little sister. It has been fun to see Samuel grow and go back and look at pictures and see just how similar they are. There is something so endearing to me to have two kids that look alike. Don't ask me why...I just love it!

Funny Video

I saw this video today and it made me laugh. Part of me found it disturbing but I just had to share it and let you be the judge!

Today

Toady I felt the wind in my hair, the sun warming my back, I felt the earth under my feet.

Today I wore no coat, I spent time with friends, and enjoyed some great conversation.

Today I spent 2 hours outside.

Today was a GREAT day!

Staying Informed

Last night our school district had a meeting to discuss the current issues facing this area. It was proposed that 2 schools, 58 jobs, and $2.6 million be cut out of the budget. You can see all the details from the meeting here. They also have encouraged parents to fill out a feedback form located on that page.

The final meeting will be held on March 23rd. I just thought I would pass on the information as it will directly affect many of our children.

Winter Blues

I saw this cartoon today and it made me laugh. I have not blogged lately because I have been sucked into the world of winter blues. I wish it was as easy to snap out of as the above cartoon advises.

Some of the reasons for the winter blues are in part due to the ridiculously cold weather we have been having. The other day I ran to the grocery store and tried to load my groceries without my gloves on and I am pretty sure I may have lost a finger or two because of it. HOWEVER tomorrow we are supposed to have record breaking temperatures and I am frantically trying to find a way to spend some time outside and enjoy it while we have it.

Reason number two: All of my friends have either just had a baby, are about to have a baby or just found out they are having a baby. Ok, so not ALL my friends but seriously a good number of them. The winter blues this brings me is in no way shape or form because I wish I was in their position. It has affected me in the way that things we used to be able to do we have not been doing as often. I also am feeling totally helpless! Several of my friends are in need of a helping hand and while I am doing my best and looking for ways I can help every chance I get I wish there was more I could do.

Long story short I need to "snap out of it", but you know when you are in such a funk and you think "Ok, I should call so and so and get together and invite them over....I just can't seem to make myself actually DO IT even though I know in the long run I am sure it would help.

So dear cute friends near and far. I worry for all of you. I miss all of you. I won't name names but M- You are an amazing woman and I pray for you all day. K- I hope you get good news this week and you MUST let me help you in some way. E- You are just too cute for being as prego as you are and we need to get together before you are on "lock down" as well. C- I SOOOOOO miss you. Times like these make me wish I was there to take your kids and rub your feet and be your labor coach!

Hang in there everyone and if anyone else out there has the "blues" call me and maybe I can get off my rear and "snap out of it"!

Denial ain't just a river in Egypt

The last few weeks I have been in denial. The kind of denial that you think if you just don't talk about it everything will magically disappear in a puff of smoke. Well, today I realized that my denial is gone and reality has set in....big time.

Most Americans are feeling a bit of hesitancy these days and to a point I really don't think that is all bad. I have however found myself questioning every little expense lately even more so than I usually do. If I am cold in the house (and let's face it with as cold as it has been here that is quite often) I question,"Do I turn the heat up a few notches or do I put on yet another layer of clothing?". I am invited to a birthday party for a good friend and I wonder,"Wow should I really spend money on going out to eat right now?", I see a great deal on kids clothing that in reality will save us money in the future but when the computer stops working in the middle of my purchase I take it as a "sign" that maybe I should not buy the clothes right now.

Much of these feelings are due to the unstable situation at my husbands workplace right now. My unease is also in great part due to the fact that many people I know and love are loosing their jobs left and right. I found out today that a family we know and love lost their job, my father has been out of work since November and my sweet brother lost his job yesterday as well.

We are fully aware that we are blessed to have a job at all right now but the question I have is how proactive do you try and be in a situation as this. Do you weather the storm and hope for the best or do you try your best at making your own destiny and hit the pavement and start looking for new jobs?

We have done our fair share of moving, and I for sure have done my part. I have been moving from place to place my entire life. The longest I have ever lived ANYWHERE is 6 years. I am 31 now so you do the math. I am tired of living my life in the upheaval of life in motion. We have finally found the perfect package of friends, church, community, home....we just love it all. I have learned to make the best out of most of my moves...after all, what other option do you have? But, the thought of leaving this perfect little bubble already just knocks me down to a place of hurt and despair that I can't even describe.

So pardon the long introspective post but the only solace I have found in the last few days is from a pan of brownies. Darn you brownies!!!! Why do you taste so good in my state of sorrow????

Please know that I am not ungrateful and I do completely realize that we STILL have a job and a beautiful home and nothing tragic has happened yet and may very well never happen. I do realize however that I need to spend much more time on my knees praying for comfort and peace and guidance and know that Heavenly Father is the only one who can lead our little family in the direction it needs to go.

I hope for all of my other friends and family in the same position right now that they may turn to the Lord for comfort as well and that we will all be there to comfort one another!

10 Year Anniversary

I looked up on the computer this morning what the traditional gifts are for a 10 year wedding anniversary. It turns out that it is tin or aluminum.

I don't know about you...but the thought of getting aluminum for our anniversary just makes me laugh. What says I love you, more than some foil. The gift would be two fold...a reminder of all of your wonderful years together AND as an added bonus you could make a nice dinner as well.I also found in my research that the new modern 10 year anniversary gift is diamonds!

I am not delusional enough to think that I will receive a gift of such magnitude this year but really can't there be some middle ground between tin and diamonds?

At any rate...gift or no gift 10 years later I find myself still married to a wonderful man that I learn to love more about each year and he has already given me 4 precious little diamonds that I love more than any ring or necklace in the world!

M-M-GOOOOOOOD

I think I am finally a Mormon mom! I made bread today. Not just any bread. We are talking grinding my own food storage wheat completely from scratch bread. For Christmas I got a wheat grinder and a really nice mixer from my mom and then I got some great lessons from my mother-in-law on how to make a great loaf of bread. The other day I thought I would give it a shot and failed terribly. I discussed the issues with my mother-in-law who quickly diagnosed the problem and so I decided to give it another try today and it worked perfectly!!!!

My house smells so fantastic right now I wish I could bottle the smell and just spray it around my house each day. So, I have some warm fresh out of the oven bread on my counter right now that is just screaming for butter and honey. Don't you want to come join me?